Dating in your early 20's is a lot of fun and in many ways its easy. Virtually everybody is either single or unattached and there is a general sense of willingness between guys and girls to meet romantically. As you get older the playing field quite literally gets culled and by the time you are 30 most people are either in long term relationships or married. When you are 40 and you have to start dating again it can be a real challenge and a completely different scenario.
Its been said that women reach their sexual peak during their 40's and being single in your forties does not mean you have to be single. The truth is that millions of men and women in their forties are looking for a second (or maybe even a third of forth) chance at love. So, where do you meet singles in their 40's? Here are 3 great options.
1. Friends And Family
One of the easiest ways to meet someone is through friends and family. Meeting someone "on recommendation" can take a lot of guesswork and potential frustration out of the equation. Its important that you make your intentions to date clear to friends and family. Often times they will just assume you don;t want to be in another relationship.
2. Socialize
Meeting someone in a bar or club when you are 20 is quite normal and perfectly feasible. In your forties its quite a different scene. You need to figure out where single men or women hang out and its probably not going to be bars and clubs. Places like Yoga, the gym or even a book shop is much more likely.
3. Online Dating
Online dating websites has exploded in recent years and its the number one place for singles over 30 to meet. Not only does it take a lot of the pain and frustration out of meeting someone, it really opens up all your options. There are dating sites that specialize in anything from dating for people with pets to dating for swingers.
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