Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Benefits to Being Alone and Single

You can truly test if you are happy when you are alone by yourself. No one wants to be alone all because it is synonymous to loneliness but some time alone can actually be good for a lot of people. Here are the benefits to being alone and single.

Being in a society where people tend to pressure you into getting into a relationship for you to be happy, people instantly jump ship and force themselves into a bond with someone. This can turn for the worse for a lot of people. Immediately getting into a relationship can have bad repercussions on your part.

If you are seriously doubting why you are being single, think for yourself why you needed to be single in the first place. Some people want to be alone for themselves while others want to be single to explore something new in their lives.

Being single means being yourself. You can get comfortable all you want without anyone telling you who to be with and who want needed to be. Being single lets you explore the world in your own terms.

Single people are most likely the happiest people all because they are able to get and do the things they want to do whenever they wish to do it. People who are bound to others are more likely tied up with their happiness to someone which frustrates them and make them feel bad about themselves.

When you are single, you answer to yourself. Whether you made a poor decision in life and you suffer the effects of it, you all get to experience everything. And when you do get rewarded for things that you have done, you reap your rewards all by yourself.

No one likes to be ordered around and when you are single, you get to do things that you want to try out like go on a road trip with friends which sometimes, your partner might be a bit doubtful on your part. When you are not single, there are times when your significant other might decide to try and push their weight around and make you do things you just do not wish to do.

It is easy to rely on people for you to get what you want but sometimes, getting what you really want in your own terms and in your best abilities is the best reward for being single and no attachments to anyone. Choose the right balance for you and try to stick to it for ultimate happiness.

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