Tips on Approaching a Woman - 3 Common Mistakes You Don't Want to Make

The subject of approaching a woman the right way is something that causes a lot of problems for single guys everywhere. Some have their own theories on what the right way is, and some are just clueless and tend to avoid making an approach whenever they can. While there is no exact right way to approach a woman, there are some mistakes that you can make that will reduce any chances that you might have of making the kind of lasting impression that you want to make on her.

Here are 3 mistakes that you do not want to make when approaching a woman:

1. Trying too hard to look cool.

Now, most guys know that on some level, you do have to appear "cool" when you make your approach. However, when most guys try too hard to give off that impression of themselves, it winds up working against them. I cannot tell you how many times I have heard attractive, single women laugh about all the various ways that guys will try to appear cool when they approach them. Don't try so hard, and you probably will come off looking a lot cooler than you would with all that effort.

2. Trying to hard to impress the woman.

This is another common mistake. I went out with a friend of mine to go clubbing, and every time he approached a woman, he tried just way too hard to impress them. Needless to say, he struck out a lot that night. Myself, on the other hand, I did quite well and my friend could not understand it because to him, it looked like I really wasn't trying at all. That's one of the "secrets" about approaching a woman. When you try too hard to impress her with things like money, what kind of car you might drive, it usually ends up being a turn off. And the ones that it does attract, tend to be the kind of women that want to have a lot of money spent on THEM.

3. Starting the conversation with a really generic line.

Basically, if it is a line you have seen on T.V. or in a movie, stay away from it. Chances are, she saw the same show or the same movie or has had more than one guy try to run it by her already. Now, there are some guys that can do quite well with generic lines, but it usually has more to do with the way they deliver it than it does with the line itself. If you are not used to dropping "lines" on a woman, don't.